The National catholic Reporter , to their credit, stop publishing unfiltered comments on their on-line platform years ago. Why? Because this liberal rag of a newspaper had readers and commenters who were the most vile, unhinged and post-Catholics to be found on earth.
Now the NcR simply publishes two or three “letters to the editor” on their on-line publication but very rarely.
The one I publish in full below captures the post-Catholic Vatican II Church. It is a Church that fears giving moral certitude to her members, refuses to offend the customer and wants to give the consumer what she/he/they/ them/ it wants. It, like the hippie rebels of the 1960’s, wants flower power, no rules, no laws, no regulations, no moralisms, just love, love, love.
This mentality is in politics today and is being captured by the young socialist democrats who want communism in this country, want to defund the police, get rid of prisons and open the borders like Spain recently did, which was eye-opening, to say the least.
In this alternative post-Catholic Vatican II Church, without borders or punishments, anything goes, not just for funerals, but for any liturgy of the Church, for any lifestyle, for anything, EXCEPT, rigidity, clarity and the right direction to the narrow road of salvation.
This post-Catholic Vatican II Church refashions herself based upon what the customer/consumer wants. And it embraces every want and desire out of a post-Catholic Vatican II understanding of that vague term which has a variety of definition.
This is the kumbaya Church that many have derided ever since that song began to be the most popular Catholic hymn of the 1960’s. There are many my age and older and a few younger who are still banging that drum of Kumbaya!
The Kumbaya Church, though, isn’t the true Church; it is an inversion of the true Church and it does not proclaim Christ Who is Divine Truth.
A letter to the Editor from the National catholic Reporter:

Illinois funeral restrictions
Reading the article about refusing same-day vigils and barring family eulogies, I ask one question: Where is the compassion for the family(NCR, July 30, 2026)? This is the kind of rigidity that sends families out the door. This attitude, by a handful of bishops, is an exercise of power and patriarchy. "Father knows best," even if technically correct, is an exercise of misplaced authority and in some cases, a mean-spirited attempt at dominance.
As a professional Lay Minister who served as a Parish Director, I have been to hundreds of funerals. Every eulogy, good or less so, has one thing at its core: Love. Love is what our faith is all about. It is no sin to express it inelegantly. It is always of God, for God is love. Adhering to the letter of the law without compassion, mercy and understanding that love is what drives the eulogy, is a failure of the cleric to understand the true meaning of love.
Pope Francis spoke many times of mercy and welcoming. How sad that families, in their grief, will feel unwanted and unwelcome. Some people will not take kindly to these actions. More and more families are having funerals out of the church for a variety of reasons. Decisions such as these will only increase that trend.
JAN RUIDL
Oak Creek, Wisconsin
























