How did we get altar girls? Through disobedience!
How did we get Communion in the hand? Through disobedience!
How did we get the common chalice and a multiplicity of Communion Ministers for it? Disobedience!
How did we get lay preaching? Disobedience!
The Post Vatican II Church is built on disobedience. You want something to become enshrined in Law, disobey first and then it will finally get approved.
Formal Blessings for anyone in immoral and mortal sin unions will come about and be enshrined in Church Law only through disobedience—it worked in the past and will in the future, despite the Vatican’s protests!
From Sileri non possum:
Vatican City – On November 18, 2024, Cardinal Víctor Manuel Fernández, Prefect of the Dicastery for the Doctrine of the Faith (formerly the Holy Office), wrote to Msgr. Stephen Ackermann, Bishop of Trier, in response to a document that the German Bishops' Conference had sent to Rome on the preceding October 24.
This document was a *Vademecum*—a sort of practical guide in German and Italian—conceived as an aid for "Blessings for couples who love one another," intended for presentation to the German diocesan bishops. The stated objective was to apply the declaration *Fiducia supplicans* (December 2023)—the Vatican document that had cautiously opened the door to the possibility of blessing irregular couples, including those of the same sex—to the pastoral reality in Germany.
The Core of the Objection
Fernández raises two substantial objections regarding the German initiative, articulated in points (a) and (b) of his letter.
First problem: there is a risk of "legitimizing" that which ought not to be legitimized. *Fiducia supplicans* had been crystal clear in stating that blessing an irregular couple does *not* signify approval of their status, nor does it confer any moral legitimacy. It is merely a matter of asking God for help to live a better life. The German *Vademecum*, however—according to the Cardinal—speaks of "official regulation" on the part of pastors, and even of "acclamation" (a gesture typically prescribed within the rite of marriage). In other words: in practice, there was a risk of legitimizing the couple's *status*—precisely the opposite of what Rome had established.
Second problem: a rite is being created where none was intended to exist. *Fiducia Supplicans* explicitly forbade any fixed ritual form: no liturgies, no para-liturgies, nothing resembling a sacrament. The *Vademecum*—while initially declaring that blessings for same-sex couples must remain within the realm of "spontaneity and freedom"—then proceeds (contradicting itself) to provide a pre-established formula. In the final section ("Form"), it goes so far as to prescribe how the blessing is to be conducted—including its aesthetics, music, and chanting—amounting, in short, to a full-blown liturgy in disguise.
**Francis, Too, Said No**
The letter is formally courteous—"I take the liberty of kindly offering the following observations"—but in substance, it constitutes a sharp rebuke. Fernández concludes with the formula, "All this is communicated for all due purposes"—a curial expression that, in practice, means: *take note and act accordingly.*
The subtext here is the tug-of-war that has pitted the Vatican against the German Church for years—a Church that has become particularly ideological and entrenched in its "Synodal Path" regarding issues such as blessings for homosexual couples, the role of women, and the promotion of the laity. Rome is telling the Germans: *Fiducia Supplicans* is not a license to construct your own parallel practice; that manual—as it currently stands—exceeds the boundaries established by the Holy See.
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*Silere non possum*














