Bishop Tobin of Providence, Rhode Island tweeted this recently:
It struck me during a Funeral Mass today - most of the mourners, family and friends, were wearing black. The priests were all wearing white. Question: Why do we have that disconnect with the instincts of the faithful?
And this was on my search engine, Yahoo:
First ladies Melania Trump, Michelle Obama, and Hillary Clinton sat together to mourn the death of Barbara Bush and wore black to show in a symbolic way the finality of death in this life.