tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7846189835239594160.post1215203848592947571..comments2024-03-28T20:30:10.681-04:00Comments on southern orders: SEXUAL HARASSMENT AND LITURGY, IS IT POSSIBLE?Fr. Allan J. McDonaldhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16986575955114152639noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7846189835239594160.post-2943307145932811992018-10-24T06:51:25.569-04:002018-10-24T06:51:25.569-04:00Despite Anonymous's predictable sarky comments...Despite Anonymous's predictable sarky comments, people should be allowed to connect with the liturgy in a way appropriate to themselves, providing that they show due consideration for other worshippers. If someone wants to kneel throughout the Mass and pray the Rosary, then it is his or her prerogative. Since the Mass is nowadays usually in the vernacular, someone with no knowledge of the local language would not be able to 'participate' in the noisy way that participation is commonly and erroneously understood.<br /><br />Thankfully hand-holding during the Pater Noster has not crosssed the Atlantic and you don't see the 'beach-ball' posture, although some people turn the palms upwards as if they were holding a large invisible parcel (Moslems pray in a similar way). They are not disturbing their neighbours, so their eccentricity is quite tolerable.<br /><br />I did object, some years ago, to being tapped on the shoulder by an officious verger to remind me that it is my turn to join the chow-line (sorry, 'Communion Procession') and the woman who twice prodded me in the back to get me to turn round at the Pax - at the Oxford Oratory, no less - elicited a response from me that was not exactly pacific.<br /><br />Despite what Anonymous says, one cannot avoid the holy handshake so easily, since if someone proffers his or her hand it is discourteous to refuse it. Also, the peace is given (pax tecum) and received (et cum spiritu tuo). A gentleman never offers to shake hands with a lady, so if you happen to be next to a woman you presumably have to wait for her to offer the peace.<br /><br />It's all a nonsense, really, and like so much in the Novus Ordo was not properly thought out. Still, as Bouyer pointed out, they were recasting, from top to bottom and in a few months, an entire liturgy which had taken twenty centuries to develop. When I attend the NO these days it is sung in Latin, ad apsidem. But it still has a capacity to irritate. Now that the classic Roman Rite is more widely available, the shortcomings of the NO are shown up in sharper relief. No wonder Bugnini wanted it juridically suppressed. But even Paul VI realized that this was ultra vires. <br /><br /> John Nolanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09027156691859606002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7846189835239594160.post-787712368892522522018-10-23T17:05:15.959-04:002018-10-23T17:05:15.959-04:00I'm not sure it is sexual harrassment but it i...I'm not sure it is sexual harrassment but it is annoying when the person next to you doesn't take the clue when your hands are folded.TJMnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7846189835239594160.post-64502986592728678802018-10-23T13:37:40.083-04:002018-10-23T13:37:40.083-04:00As long as people come to Mass with the idea that ...As long as people come to Mass with the idea that they are ENTITLED to "personal space" or that they are VICTIMS when that "personal space" is violated, then, Houston, we have a problem.<br /><br />A person who does not wish to hold hands or offer a handshake at the Sign of Peace can simply keep his/her hands together in prayer. <br /><br />And then there's that guy who always takes up the collection in the section of the church where I sit. I just KNOW that he is leering at me, imagining all sorts of inappropriate things. And when the priest says, "The Lord be with you." I just KNOW he is harboring un-chaste thoughts. He should be wearing some kind of blindfold so that he cannot perceive the presence of others. Maybe I should wear one as well...<br /><br />O, my, yes, the Mass is SUCH an occasion of sin...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7846189835239594160.post-69386671944300705362018-10-23T13:30:37.518-04:002018-10-23T13:30:37.518-04:00Get rid of the pews. Get rid of the pews. Marchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13510317669833026685noreply@blogger.com